Writing about outdoor toileting–a post on which the G.U. received more than a few notes–reminded Gunc of a time he spent with his darling nieces Brookie and Grace, the oldest of whom was then just three and a half. They were on one of his boyfriend’s famed total-family summer trips, on a barren barrier island off the coast of North Carolina. Being the gracious uncle he is, Gunc had volunteered to remain with his nieces on the beach after everyone else had left, as the girls wanted to continue playing in the water. [Full disclosure: Gunc had only arrived at the beach forty minutes before: the family had been out there since dawn; he and Tal had been in their room “working”, avoiding their dramas.] He was enjoying his time with the girls, digging holes and playing in the foamy wave edges, when suddenly, Brooke–a scrawny, rambunctious little child who G.U. adores–announced in a somewhat panicked tone that she had to go to the bathroom. Gunc pointed at the surf. “There’s your toilet, darling” he said. “Go for it.” Brookie nodded and walked toward the water, and the Gay Uncle returned to playing Drown Barbie with her sister. When he turned around to check on Brooke’s progress a moment later, she was back to happily chasing the breaking waves. But there, not five feet behind her was a tiny and perfectly pyramidical structure. Gunc rose to examine it, fearful that it might be a sea creature’s emerging head, or an alien’s signpost to a buried treasure. But when he was close enough to see it in detail, he discovered that it was neither. Indeed, it was a delicate pile of his niece’s poo. Unwilling to pick it up, allow it to disturb the path of egg-laying sea turtles, or leave it to be discovered by one of the wealthy home owners who gathered on the shore every sunset with fancy lawn-chairs and bottles of Chard, he turned to the girl. “I think you missed the ocean by a few feet. Please cover that up.”